Thursday, June 20, 2013

It's True: Some Parents Want to Live Through Their Kids

Parents may wish for kids to fulfill their unfulfilled dreams, like become a concert pianist, research published June 19, 2013 finds.

 

Yes, mom may really be pushing you into marching band because she always wanted to be drum major. New research finds that, consistent with what kids may believe, parents really do hope to live out unfulfilled ambitions through their children.

Parents are more likely to hope that their child fulfills their own broken dreams when they see their kid as part of themselves, according to the study, which appears online today (June 19) in the journal PLOS ONE

"The child's achievements may come to function as a surrogate for parents' own unfulfilled ambitions," said study researcher Eddie Brummelman, a doctoral psychology student at Utrecht University in the Netherlands. "In this way, a sense of oneness with their children may compel parents to transfer their unfulfilled ambitions on to them."

For the rest of the story: http://www.livescience.com/37559-parents-living-vicariously-through-children.html

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